Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Granddaddy Schaefer and "The Little Prince." Part 2

Continued from the previous post.....

Dear Boo and Bubble,
 
Granddaddy Schaefer had pretty good perceptions about people as well.  To his way of thinking, those who were too greedy, too vain, too preoccupied and too serious were going to fail sooner or later. I couldn’t help but think that some of that insight must have come directly from the Little Prince’s visits to Asteroids 325, 326, 327, 328, 329 and 330.

              The first one was inhabited by a king.  Wearing purple and ermine, he was sitting on a simple yet majestic throne.
              “Ah! Here’s a subject!” the king exclaimed when he caught sight of the little prince. 
              And the little prince wondered, ‘How can he know who I am if he’s never seen me before?’  He didn’t realize that for kings, the world is extremely simplified:  All men are subjects.

……later in the same chapter

              “Exactly.  One must command from each what each can perform,” the king went on.  “Authority is based first of all upon reason.  If you command your subjects to jump in the ocean, there will be a revolution.  I am entitled to command obedience because my orders are reasonable.”

On Asteroid 326 -

              The second planet was inhabited by a very vain man.  “Ah! A visit from an admirer!” he exclaimed when he caught sight of the little prince, still at some distance.  To vain men, other people are admirers.   
              “Hello,” said the little prince.  “That’s a funny hat you’re wearing.”
              “It’s for answering acclamations,” the very vain man replied.  “Unfortunately, no one ever comes this way.”
              “Is that so?” said the little prince, who did not understand what the vain man was talking about.
              “Clap your hands,” directed the man.
              The little prince clapped his hands, and the very vain man tipped his hat in modest acknowledgment
And he continued clapping.  The very vain man continued tipping his hat in acknowledgment.  .

……later in the same chapter

              But the vain man did not hear him.  Vain men never hear anything but praise.

On Asteroid 327 –

              The next planet was inhabited by a drunkard. 
              “What are you doing there?” he asked the drunkard.
              “Drinking,” replied the drunkard, with a gloomy expression.
              “Why are you drinking?” the little prince asked.
              “To forget,” replied the drunkard.
              “To forget what?” inquired the little prince, who was already feeling sorry for him.
              “To forget that I’m ashamed,” confessed the drunkard, hanging his head.
              “What are you ashamed of?” inquired the little prince, who wanted to help.
              “Of drinking!” concluded the drunkard, withdrawing into silence for good.

Granddaddy had an amazing aura about him.  He was a magnet to people, young and old.  Like all of us, he had his shortcomings, but until the day he died, he truly sought to listen to and learn from others.  This was particularly so with his children and grandchildren.  It was as if a piece of his heart was planted in each of us.  He invested his time in us.

              And he went back to the fox.
              “Good-bye,” he said.
              “Good-bye,” said the fox.  “Here is my secret. It’s quite simple:  One sees clearly only with the heart.  Anything essential is invisible to the eyes.” 
              “Anything essential is invisible to the eyes,” the little prince repeated, in order to remember.
              “It’s the time you spent on your rose that makes your rose so important.”
              “It’s the time I spent on my rose….,” the little prince repeated, in order to remember.
              “People have forgotten this truth,” the fox said.  “But you mustn’t forget it.  You become responsible forever for what you’ve tamed.  You’re responsible for your rose…”
              “I’m responsible for my rose….,” the little prince repeated, in order to remember.

When I think back on Granddaddy, my memory of him is so vivid it’s almost like he’s still alive.  I can hear him chuckling. I can remember the way he used to push his fingers together and press them against his mouth when he was thinking.  I can see his penetrating blue eyes looking over the half-frames of his glasses and I can hear the notes of “Turnip Greens” rolling off of the piano in our living room. Very much like the Little Prince, he dropped out of the sky and landed on the desert of my life to show me what matters.  His presence is still with me. 

              “At night, you’ll look up at the stars.  It’s too small, where I live, for me to show you where my star is.  It’s better that way.  My star will be …. one of the stars for you.  So you’ll like looking at all of them.  They’ll all be your friends.  And besides, I have a present for you.”  He laughed again.
              “Ah, little fellow, little fellow, I love hearing that laugh!”
              “That’ll be my present.  Just that…it’ll be the same as the water.”
              “What do you mean?”
              “People have stars, but they aren’t the same.  For travelers, the stars are guides.  For other people, they’re nothing but tiny lights.  And for still others, for scholars, they’re problems.  For my businessman, they are gold.  But all those stars are silent stars.  You, though, you’ll have stars like nobody else.”
              “What do you mean?”
              “When you look up at the sky at night, since I’ll be living on one of them, since I’ll be laughing on one of them, for you it’ll be as if all the stars are laughing.  You’ll have stars that laugh.”
              And he laughed again.
              “And when you’re consoled (everyone eventually is consoled), you’ll be glad you’ve known me.  You’ll always be my friend.  You’ll feel like laughing with me.  And you’ll open your window sometimes just for the fun of it…And your friends will be amazed to see you laughing while you’re looking up at the sky.”

Yes, Granddaddy Schaefer, I know you’re up there, in the sky on a star. You and the little prince laughing forever together.   

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